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I tried dating, but it was not successful.
It might have been illuminating. Now that you posted yourself nude was a bit lonely and painful. Know When You Are Ready to Date The real trick in dating after a divorce with children is to know when you are still emotionally wrecked an unfit for courtship.
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For seeking an older asian woman goleta and brains, this meant I was confident, happy, and intentional in my approach to women who held potential as a partner. I began to date with my long-term eyes. This new conscious dating helped me streamline my process.
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I have a different priority in my life. Empathy is important, and several of my non-mom partners were very empathetic.
But empathy is not the same as the visceral connections we share with our kids. My kids still come. I think some of this is hardwired.
We need to have intellectual compatibility. We need to synchronize our schedules over time.
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If that IS what you are looking for, go for it. Feeling the Feelings Men are often accused of not feeling their feelings.
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Feelings are the key to compatibility, in my opinion.
I wait enthusiastically. Thank you for your comment. Here are several points where I think we need more discussion.
Dating younger women. Yes, I selected these potential dates and knew their age, and also that they had not ever had children.
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My post shows some of my learnings as a result of these mistakes. My one girlfriend since divorce was a couple years older.
Straight to sex. This is one I try to cover in the post in several different ways. If this is the case, we are not a fit.
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I agree with many of the things you say are wrong between the relationships between men and women. I am not an apologist for the cultural norms that have stacked the deck against those of us who are trying to elevate the discussion about it all.
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We learn. We evolve. I am hoping to get better, clearer, and more honest with each attempt at being in a relationship. I really do appreciate you taking a chance and voicing your opinion.